There is a saying 'when i do good, i will feel good; when i do bad, i feel bad' ,
if only it were that black and white.

Sometimes doing the right thing makes you feel everything but good, 
you can feel scary, uncomfortable, because even you make the good choices,
the bad things still can happen, as much as we want them,
there are no 'guarentees',
all we can do is have faith that if we act with our heart, 
the things that we do will one day make us feel right,
even if sometimes the things we do feel a little wrong,
of course it must not be opposing the law......

'Feelings' is an odd thing happening around our inner heart,
no one likes quarelling, but its often happens,
just because we want to express our own feelings to others,
who have a different opinion on the topic.

Every time we bite our tongues,
we know each other a little less,
keep arguing the same  thing will never bring out an outcome,
the best solution is to sit tight and discuss with others to stop the quarelling.

To spare someones feeling, we hide our own,
and when you hide what you feel, you end up with regrets.
 
Being honest might not make you the most popular person in the schoolyard,
but it will earn u respect,
and when nice people learn to respect themselves, they'll always finish first.....

It's impossible to define what makes a man,
because no 2 men are the same,
but you can learn a lot when you walk a mile in our shoes.

Men can be incredibly strong and soft at the same time,
they can be generous sharing at the same time,
some at least the good ones,
tend to possess something that makes them ready for some great responsibility,
even when that responsibility is someone else's.

Sometimes the one thing harder for taking responsibility for another men's mistake,
is taking responsibility for your own.

Generally,
a man should be responsible for everything he has made,
even when it's a mistake,
a man should also live it with no regrets.......

Sometimes in order to move forward,
you have to stop looking back.

Its always tempting to stick with what's safe, what's comfortable,
but love isn't safe, we can't trust that it will stay the same,
all we can do is hang on, even we feel vulnerable, naked even.

You might never feel ready to move in or move on, 
but you have to because that's how we grow,
and growing is what its all about.

Growing is just a process of living,
some might not like it but its a MUST,
because you can never fight mother nature,
or what GOD made.

Although one day that process will end
but do not fear it,
as it will lead you to a new journey with no boundaries,
because you can't explore it unless you have been through the TWILIGHT ZONE....

Balance is just important in nature as it is in yourself,
that when you care for someone,
they can care for you back,
that you can trust other people to help you out,
and that you can trust yourself....

世界上的两种人：好人，坏人。

好人注定被坏人伤害，
但经过许多风雨终有站起来的一天。。。

坏人注定伤害别人，
最后回得到报应，
也会有改过的机会。。。

好人变成坏人非常容易，
但从坏人变回好人却不易。。。

每个人从生下来的那一刻都是好汉一个。。。
但是几年后他的真面目就会露出来了。。。
想当好人还是坏人由你自己决定。。。
希望那会是你自己想要的，而不是受别人所影响。。。。